Dissatisfaction in our life is a signal that something needs to change. But the question is…how do we make that change? 

After years of working with people to help them transform their lives I’ve come to the conclusion that the best way to transform your dissatisfaction into satisfaction is through curiosity. Or as I like to call it, “being in question”

Curiosity is an extremely powerful catalyst for change. It is the gentle nudge that pushes us to explore the unknown and signals to the universe that we are ready for something different. Using the power of curiosity we can transform any sense of dissatisfaction into a journey of discovery to take us to a new reality with greater satisfaction. Here is how…

Step 1: Acknowledge Your Dissatisfaction

The first step toward transformation is recognizing that you’re not fully content with your current situation. Whether it’s a job that no longer excites you, a relationship that feels stagnant, or a lifestyle that lacks fulfillment, acknowledging this dissatisfaction is crucial. It’s the contrast between where you are and where you want to be that ignites the desire for change.

Step 2. Make the Decision to Change

Once you’ve identified your dissatisfaction, the next step is making a conscious decision that you’re ready for something different. This is a pivotal moment where you choose to embrace change. Perhaps you’ve been contemplating a new career path or considering a move to a different city. The key is to commit to this decision wholeheartedly.

Step 3. Choose What You Want

With your decision made, it’s time to get specific about what you want to experience. This could be anything from a new job that excites you, a travel adventure, or even meeting new people who inspire you. The more clarity you have about your desires, the better you can signal the universe.

Step 4. Embrace the Power of Curiosity (Be In Question)

Now comes the exciting part: asking the universe for what you want. 

I know the universe likes to be spoken to through question, not assumptions or with controlled attachments to certain outcomes. Instead of simply demanding or wishing for something, frame your requests in a state of curiosity. 

“What would be fun for me in this next chapter?” 

“What would it feel like to find the partner of my dreams?” 

“How can I be more inspired?”

Since infinite experiences exist, the universe needs a way to communicate and bring you from all the possibilities so you can have the experience you’re asking for. These curious phrases not only express your desire but also invite the universe to respond in a way that aligns with your curiosity.

Step 5. Remain Open to Possibilities

As you signal your desires to the universe, remain open to the possibilities that come your way. Sometimes, what you receive may not look exactly like what you envisioned, but it could lead you to even greater experiences. 

Trust the process and stay curious about how your life may unfold!

Step 6. Take Inspired Action

Finally, curiosity often leads to opportunities, but it’s up to you to take action. If we are too fearful to step out of our comfort zone and make changes then it means we are letting the past dictate our future and allowing our subconscious minds to hold us back in the “safe zone”...more on this later…

When you feel inspired by a new idea or opportunity, follow through. Embrace the adventure and watch as new experiences begin to manifest in your life.